Suzan Tolman’s last official duty as portreeve of Callington was to officially open the first dementia coffee morning at Cornwall Care’s Chyvarhas nursing home.
Having worked as a carer in the home for eleven years, the event could not have been provided a more fitting finale to Councillor Tolman’s term as mayor.
“It was the best job I ever had,” she said. “I left in 1999 to qualify as a teacher but the staff and residents here were like family. It’s wonderful to come back and I love the refurbishment that has been going on.”
After cutting the ribbon to the bright airy area close to reception that is being used for what will now become a regular event on the third Friday of every month, Sue Tolman joined those attending for light refreshments and a chat about the importance of getting together and sharing experiences.
“It’s so important for carers to talk to each other in a safe space, especially those trying to look after a loved one at home,” said Michael Dickinson-Smith, Chyvarhas home manager.
“Dementia affects everyone differently but supporting someone dear to you, whose personality is being changed by an illness affecting their brain, can be hard to cope with. Carers are all too often forgotten so giving people a chance to meet others in a similar situation can be crucial.”
Seated in comfortable armchairs with a hot drink and light refreshments, those attending listened to Michael talk about dementia and its effects in a convivial setting that encouraged questions and swapping stories.
“As professional carers working in a home, we develop a strong sense of community and being there for each other,” said Chyvarhas activities coordinator Denise Eaton.
“Home carers might not have support and often don’t have the knowledge and understanding of dementia that can make things easier. That’s why mornings like this can help.”
The next dementia coffee morning at Chyvarhas will take place on Friday 16 June from 10am to midday. The event is free and there is no need to book.
Chyvarhas in Callington belongs to the Cornwall Care group of care homes that is now part of not-for-profit Sanctuary Care. The home accommodates up to 36 residents.